Seo For A New Social Network In NZ 2nd posting

Hello im after som Seo for my new social network in new zealand. The website has just gone live. website is called [login to view URL] i also have another site [login to view URL] which if you are good you can work on as well. Basically i need someone to go through the whole site as we have used dating software so there are a whole lot of tags that are not needed for this site( i need this done asap as its poping up in the search engines). Also I would like the website ranking well for multiple key words. Im not sure of my key words but what im after is high rankings in new zealand as there is only 2 competition in new zealand [login to view URL] and [login to view URL] (both owned by the same company) so maybe you can see what they are optimized for? I want to rank well above them so am keen to see a plan how to do it? Could you provide an seo pre anaylsis? and also your experience and ability to do this. Can you also provide and/or recommend link building ? all seo and link building i want white lable and REAL and organic. I look forward to hearing your approach to get the site generating some traffic. There will be lots of ongoing work for my other websites if I can see a return on investment from your SEO. What I would really like as this is a repost is for a professional seo company to strategically show me the following: 1- how to get miles above my said competition 2-show me a game plan and approach to achieve 10,000 unique visits per month in 3 months 3-detailed approach how this is achieved i.e social bookmarking ? how much? links ? how much ? what page rack are the links coming from? blogs ? how often? 4-how you can achieve these results with local (new zealand) trafic 5- just what needs to be done to do this, please only post if you know how to achive the goals Cheers Andy p.s good communication and reviewing our results along side our game plan is a must Thanks for looking at this job Andy