Create SITE MAP to help search engines find all my pages

Please create a SITE MAP which will let Google, Yahoo, Bing etc index my individual site pages. Presently, only my home page is indexed by the engines. But I also have about 1,000 additional pages within the same site. These are presently NOT LINKED in any way to the home page. Want you to create a SITE MAP with some sort of "link path", so Google spider can find ALL these pages for indexing. My site visitors do not have to access the individual 1,000 pages from the home site. They don't even have to know the "index" exists at all! The Site Map is JUST for the search engines. After you have created the SITE MAP, we should TEST it with this utility: [login to view URL] to verify it is going to work for the spiders. ALSO after you have finished, I would like you to TELL ME how to do this MYSELF in the FUTURE for my OTHER WEBSITES. (in other words, show me the steps, tell me what software utility to use). I realize this is not a "Tricky" project for someone who knows what he's doing (like you).