Ok this is a very simple project,
* Tweak this code to "not autostart"
* Currently this embed code "autostarts" so we need to configure it not to autostart..
* But still keeping it's <embed> format
<embed src="http://media.friends21.com/latest_player.swf" quality="high" bgcolor="#ffffff" width="421" height="380" name="player" autostart="false" align="middle" allowScriptAccess="sameDomain"
allowFullScreen="true" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" flashVars="&ext=flv3&id=y8dsfih6gcn7w9vuqkn4&type=local&tag=" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" /></object>